How can a mother and daughter act so different but it some ways be so much alike? They both do all they can do help people that need help. They are both widowed and know how it feels to live alone. But they are two totally people when it comes to thinking about how others are going to feel before they say things. One could careless how they make someone feel. When I’m with her and she says stuff to make people feel bad it makes me feel bad for that person. I guess with age you figure out just to go with the flow and her daughter will hopefully learn that soon enough.